Update

Ok so my monster-in-law, i mean mother-in-law has struck again... she tried "to kill herself" why that is in speech marks is because 1 hour before she took 9 panadol she called her brother, so on both counts clearly not an actual suicide attempt, from someone who tried a number of times in her teen years to do this, if you want to die you DO NOT CALL SOMEONE AND TELL THEM YOU ARE DOING IT... and 9 panadol is not going to do much. maybe 19 even then not much but a bad stomach ache. now when the doctors asked her why she did it she blamed me because i was not talking to her... bloody hell, so she acts like a bitch and attacks me, i remove myself and my daughter and then it is my fault we aren't talking to her? great... so my partner who told me he never wanted to see her again, went to see her, after telling me he wouldn't, so she has succeeded in getting my partner to lie to me, and of course we fought about it, so another victory for her... now she is saying she is going to do it again if i don't bring my daughter over to visit... FUCK NO!!!!!! why would i put me daughter in danger because she threatens me... but then my partner wanted to take her, i am seriously considering splitting up with him just so he won't take her to his mother... i feel bad but what am i supposed to do.... i am conflicted because i love my partner but i refuse to let my daughter be polluted by that toxic woman... what should i do???